Well, Hello.
I am Elle, a 40-something soft femdomme, with a findom kink, living in the United States. My dominance is not loud—it slips into the cracks of your mind until submission is no longer a choice but an inevitability. Insight, intuition, and purpose shape my dominance, forging devotion into something exquisite.
I am...
• a sorceress weaving spells through control and surrender.
• a sovereign draped in lace and fire, ruling with an iron will.
• a nurturer cradling broken things, deciding whether to mend them or watch them writhe.
• a rebel dismantling illusions, exposing the raw, pulsing truth beneath. You will not stumble upon me—I am found only by those worthy enough to seek. My energy is precious. My attention, rarer still. Approach with reverence, and you may earn the privilege of my gaze.
What I Value
• Insight, intuition, and psychological surrender.
• Authenticity—bring me your truth, not your persona.
• Obedience—because control without resistance is merely theater.
• Devotion—your wallet is not enough; I require your mind.
• Financial stability—reckless sacrifice is not devotion. Strategic surrender is.
• SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual)—Submission without these is chaos.
• PRICK (Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink)—Own your submission.
What I Expect
• Respectful, consistent devotion.
• Financial security—your service should enhance me, not ruin you.
• Intelligence and a sense of humor—mindless obedience is not enough.
• Open, honest communication.
• Obedience without hesitation.
• Verified Age 25+ Only—I’m not in the business of warping an underdeveloped mind or wallet. Kink can wait. Findom requires more than just eagerness—it demands readiness.
What I Require
• Tribute—Devotion has a price. Tribute is not a gift; it’s proof of your commitment. If you hesitate, you’re not ready to serve. If you think my attention comes free, you’ve already failed the test.
• Age Verification—My preferred (and only) method is Yoti—available worldwide (excluding North Korea and other red list countries). Instructions for Yoti are below.
Age verification is an act of devotion—simple, but vital. It demonstrates respect, trust, and willingness to follow my guidance. In the beginning, it holds just as much weight as that first tribute and initial communication. If you can't meet this fundamental requirement, you're not ready to serve me.
• Name & Pronouns—I need to know how to address you properly. Respect starts here.
• Discussion of Limits—No limits? If I asked for your bank login, your real name, or your mother's phone number, you'd find a boundary real fast. Limits aren't just physical—they include emotional, psychological, and financial thresholds. I expect honesty. If you don’t know your limits yet, say so—we’ll find them together.
• Your Expectations—Are you looking for a quick drain or a long-term devotion? Let’s align from the start. Communication prevents disappointment.
• Your Budget—Be honest. How much can you devote weekly, monthly, consistently? This isn’t about draining you dry—it’s about sustainability. A sub who gives within their means is far more valuable than one who crashes and burns. Strategic surrender, not reckless sacrifice.
My Rules
• No boundary pushing—I decide the limits. Testing me will cost you.
• No unsolicited media—I will decide what I wish to see and when.
• No content begging—My presence is not a marketplace.
• No ghosting—Abandonment will cost you. Re-entry requires an Unblock Fee.
• No financial instability—Your devotion must not come at the cost of your survival.
• No meets—My realm exists where I choose, not where you imagine.
Devotion is Mandatory
If you’re not ready to give, you’re not ready to serve. A $50 initial devotion is required to be considered. Anything less is beneath me. You will send through channels of my choosing.CashApp | YouPay | Throne I am not a "tribute or nothing" Domme. I welcome an initial conversation—brief, intentional—to see if we align. I understand the desire to gauge expectations, but to take it any further, devotion and age verification are required. I will not begin any dynamic with a submissive trying to top from the bottom. I am the Supreme—I am not to be questioned. Feel free to test the waters, but beyond that, remember your place and where obedience begins. Your willingness to follow instructions is your first test of obedience. Instructions for using Yoti are below.
What You Get in Return
• My energy, if you earn it.
• My attention, if you deserve it.
• My control, if you can handle it.
• The intoxicating satisfaction of knowing you are owned.If This Sounds Like You
Submit your devotion.
Verify your age.
Fill out the sub application.
And wait. Most will not pass the threshold. Few will be chosen. But those who are? You will know what it means to kneel beneath a sovereign gaze.Sovereign Siren—Beneath My Gaze, You Kneel
Age Verification – Yoti Only
I am choosing to ONLY accept Yoti for age verification. It takes minutes to download, create an account, and verify yourself. Yoti is the safest method I’ve found for verifying a sub’s age—for both of us. Adult subscription sites and wishlist platforms don’t always require verifiable proof of identity and Yoti is backed by facial recognition. And let’s be real—faking a screenshot is child’s play for anyone with basic editing skills. I don’t take chances. Yoti is secure, encrypted, and the data remains in your hands—not mine. Within your Yoti app, I require two things: proof of your age and the corresponding QR code. You don’t need to compromise your anonymity by sharing a photo of your ID that could be hacked or misused. Censoring your information only keeps out honest people. Yoti keeps you protected—and keeps me certain.How to Send Your Yoti Verification: 1. After downloading Yoti and creating your account, open the app.
2. Tap Yoti ID Card and select Age.
3. When your verification opens, tap Show QR Code.
4. Screenshot the QR code and send it to me.Simple. Secure. No excuses.